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Friday, June 10, 2011

Down on one knee . . .

So many couples are planning themed engagement sessions with costumes and a lot of creative hullabaloo.  I'm all for that and they can be incredibly fun, but every once in a while, it's really nice to just see a very simple marriage proposal like this one.




I love how he says "I fumbled and I couldn't find the right words, but the important thing is I was down on one knee."  It's always funny to me how guys hone in on that one element like it's what every girl has dreamed about, when really, once they get around to popping the question, we probably wouldn't care if they were hanging upside down from a tree!

How fun will this be for them to show their kids one day?

Registering for the {Deep Blue Sea}

Playing house is nearly as great as a honeymoon.  Nearly.  But when we're talking about Greece as your destination, I don't think anything compares.

Yesterday, I was on my google reader getting my fill of Design*Sponge (one of my favorite design blogs) and Grace posted about a book titled Greece on My Wheels by Edward Enfield.  

Edward narrates his travels by bicycle throughout Greece and the Greek Islands.  Well, with the blazing heat here in central Texas my plants are even wilting INDOORS, so a vacation to the clear blue Mediterranean is sounding pretty schweeeet right about now.  I jumped on Amazon and ordered that sucker, because it's about time Timothy and I start planning our Honeymoon.

We used this nifty little website called Honeymoon Wishes to register for a honeymoon rather than wedding presents.  I know, awesome, huh?  Actually registries (like weddings themselves) are no longer stuck to traditional restrictions.  So many couples are now getting married at the average age of 27-28, and many of them have lived together previously and some of them already have children.  That means they already have all the toasters and blenders and dishes they need, so why ask for more?  Instead, with all these new online registries they now can register for everything from a down payment on a house to donations towards a new family vehicle.  Tim and I jumped on that bandwagon with zero second thoughts.  [ note: we did also register for traditional home goods and gift items for people who did not feel comfortable giving money or who preferred to bring a gift.  Most people choose to do the easy thing and pull out their plastic, but many people gave us gifts as well and they were all appreciated!  It was nice for a bit of variety, too.  ]

So for our registry we created little activities for our honeymoon in Greece, like scooter rentals (whoopee!) and snorkeling, and items like a hotel suite upgrade or breakfast in bed.  Every gift item was allotted a certain amount of money and then guests could select what gift they wanted to give based on how much money they wanted to spend.  Most people had a lot of fun with it.  All the money goes into your account with the registry and then on a selected date they issue you a check for the amount that's been donated.
We did really well with our registry and our loved ones were so kind and generous towards us.  And while we are appreciating all the home goods gifts that we got right NOW (like our fabulous toaster oven, Kitchen Aid mixer, Pyrex glassware & Acai salad bowl sets, etc), we have that reserved fund in our bank account to spend on our honeymoon one day in the future!

Many people wondered why we didn't go to Greece immediately after our wedding, like "normal people do."  Well, I've wanted to go to Greece for a very, very long time.  My standards for what I NEED to accomplish while we are there are extremely high.  I am not much of a "mosey-er."  I walk a lot and I see a lot and I am pretty darn annoying with a camera.  Plus, when it comes to Greece, I love the history, the culture, the food, and of course, the birthplace of theatre!  I knew how exhausted I would be after three months straight of designing and planning our wedding, and the thought of climbing on a plane and trekking all over a country for two weeks after that just wasn't thrilling to me.  Especially when I knew all I would want to do was sleep and eat.  I didn't want to waste our trip to Greece sleeping in our hotel room!  And Tim?  Well, he agreed with me.  Plus I think he thought that if I tried to plan an extended overseas trip at the SAME TIME as the wedding that things might just end up badly.  So we opted to save the money and use it at a later date.

But I digress . . .  

I should mention that we did take a Mini-Moon to Marfa, TX, following the wedding (and you can see pictures here), and it was a lot of fun.  This is a great idea of couples in our situation or one similar.  Resorts will book you a honeymoon whenever you tell them you are on your honeymoon - they don't care if that's two days after your wedding or two years!  A mini-moon at least gives a couple some time to recoup after the wedding and enjoy a few days just being newlyweds.

What we ended up concluding was that since the best time of year to go to Greece is really May, before it gets too hot (but still warm enough to enjoy the sea) and before all the summer tourists arrive, we'd make that trip our oneyearhoneyanniversarymooning in 2012!


 
And this . . .














And this . . .














Can't wait.

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Registries to check out if you're looking for something different on your Wedding Day:

Honeymoon Wishes - this is the site we registered on, there are hundreds out there, but I though this one was simple and easy to use.

Down Payment Dreams & Hatch My House - both provide a place to register for a downpayment, mortgage, or renovation fund.

GreenWish - contributions to any large scale gift or project in your community, primarily focusing on local & green organizations.

The Big Day - here you not only can register for a honeymoon fund, but also to have people pay for certain aspects of your wedding day itself (the limo ride, your first glass of champagne, fireworks, etc).

Don't forget you can always have people donate to any charity or your alma mater online, if that's more up your alley.

Thursday, June 9, 2011

AT home in ATX

HELLO AUSTIN! 


Wow.  I can not express how exciting it is for us to finally be in our new home.  It is an amazing feeling to open the door to a little house that has our names written all over it.  [ In fact, Tim was so enthusiastic he insisted on carrying me over the door step.  I wasn't in the mood, so he just grabbed me under the arms and lifted me over about two inches off the ground. ]

There are a lot of "firsts" here for us.  For one, we've never made a permanent move.  By permanent, I mean moved somewhere with the intention of staying for 3+ years at least.  I think we thought that about Washington, D.C. but quickly changed our minds after living there a bit.  We never felt at home in the District.  We loved so many things about it, we thoroughly enjoyed the years we spent living there and all the wonderful people we met, we had some really great experiences, and it holds many happy memories for us.  Mostly this is what I miss . . . we just don't get fall here in Texas, and unfortunately for me, it's my favorite season.


But it never felt like home.

Of course, this idea of "Home" means different things to different people.  For Tim and I, Home isn't just a house that we live in.  It's a city that we feel fits our nature and personalities, celebrates its culture, and takes responsibility for the environment.  It's surrounding ourselves with diverse, yet like-minded people: a type of people who not only are good citizens, but also appreciate hospitality, community, and peaceful living.  And yes, it is definitely having a home to come home to.



This time it's a house.  That's another first.  We've never lived in an actual house together before, ever.  We welcome the new responsibility of caring for a lawn, planning landscaped areas, gardening, pruning, weeding, and enjoying the fruits (hopefully) of our labors.  We like having to get out a hammer every now and then to fix something.  We like having multiple living spaces!  You think I'm joking . . . . [ You mean we can cook in one room and dine in another?  Sleep in a bedroom and watch TV elsewhere?  Have an actual office space?  All luxuries Austin has to offer us for less than the cost of a one room apartment in central D.C. that doesn't even accept pets. ]  We like this domestic life that we have never had the pleasure of experiencing.  This morning was one of our two days a week we could water outdoors.  We set up the oscillating sprinklers and just sat there and watched them go baaaaack and forth.  We are ridiculous.  But it was a pleasant morning, still cool and early, and our porch just felt so cozy.



We knew we would love Austin people, and we were right.  This morning our next door neighbor came over to meet Mr. Dog.  He returned the gesture by peeing on her tomato plants and sunbathing on her lawn.  She was A-OK with both of those things.  Just this evening I was saying goodbye to a friend on our front sidewalk (we have a sidewalk!) and two neighbors walking their dog stopped to introduce themselves.  They noticed we'd been moving in and wanted to know our dog's name.  I was thrilled . . . even though the gentleman was holding a steaming bag of dog poop in his hand as I went to shake it.

Oscar sunbathed with me.
Then he wanted to be wrapped up in his beach towel to nap on the sofa.

Our location couldn't be more convenient or feel more safe.  We're not on a busy street, clearly we have loyal and friendly neighbors, and people watch out for each other.  We're less than a minute drive (10 minute walk) from cafes, bakery, coffee shops, grocery, a reputable theater, and gym.  Really, what more could you ask for?


Tim went out for about four hours yesterday afternoon and while he was gone I did some rearranging and some little bits of decorating.  These are just some "trial runs" if you will.  I'm a full believer that you have to live in a house for a while to understand how you will truly "live" in it.  That means that furniture moves around quite a bit, the cabinets get reorganized multiple times, and we just plain experiment before we settle in.  Here are some sneak peeks of things I'm tossing around.  Don't judge.  They are incomplete!

Dining table. Chairs from our wedding in Mint Green.

Cake plate courtesy Sunday Hatch : )

My old dresser - this will be a "redo" project this fall!


So happy to have our bed back! (so is Mr. Dog)

(I couldn't help myself... he's just so gosh darned cute!)



I probably moved furniture around in the living - dining room 12 times or so.  
First this corner by the front door looked like this . . .


But ended up like this . . .


 And in case you were wondering, this is what I'm reading these days . . . 


The Greece travel guide is the same that Tim proposed with and the "help books" are from the Mama-in-Law.
We haven't quite situated the sofa and we're still missing our antique buffet which will go next to the wicker chair you see in the picture above.  And we love our antique theater seats on permanent loan from Circle Arts Theatre that you see under the window by the front door!  So far ZERO progress on our office area, or the bathroom.  I sort of wince every time I go in to use the toilet -- there's so much to be done!  And the spare bedroom still looks like this . . . EEK!



 We seriously just cleared a little pathway through the room, otherwise you cannot move in there.

And this is a complete tangent, but some of you know I quit drinking milk about three years ago.  I'm not lactose intolerant (that I know of), but decided after a bit of reading and some documentaries to try erasing it from my diet.  Part of this was because of the questionable nature of milk these days - especially anything that's not organically processed or from grass-fed cows.  I love milk, but even when I was drinking the best of the best, it still made me feel sluggish, bloated, and full. (TMI?)  I tried Coconut, Soy, and Rice milk before fearing I'd never find a substitute I could tolerate.  Then a friend suggested Almond milk and I gave it a try yesterday.  SUPER!  I can do this!  So if you're looking for an alternative, this is what I now endorse.  The plain flavor is pretty much tasteless, but still creamy like a good milk should be, and it doesn't leave a sweet aftertaste like so many of the other substitutes do.

And paired with Oreos to celebrate yesterday's first-day-in-the-house?

(don't my new bowls from Anthropologie look cute?)
. . .  doubly delightful!

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Well, at 2:00am this morning Tim left for Bonnaroo music festival in Nashville TN.  He'll be gone for four days.  The first time we've been apart since marriage.  I plan on getting a lot done while he's off having fun, but since he was leaving I decided to forgive him forgetting to call the gas company before we moved in to have them turn our gas on.  Two days and counting with no hot water.  Gotta love the man!  Plus, Madeleine Peyroux was on Austin City Limits last night and, cold shower or no, probably no other sound could make me feel as forgiving . . . .

Monday, June 6, 2011

MishMash + Thankfulness

This is just a little bit of filler post..... a mishmash.... just the way I love it.

This weekend our good friends Danielle & Rob came to visit.  My parents went to Santa Fe, NM to visit my younger sister, and even though Tim and I now have our own place we had already agreed to house-sit.  So imagine staying with your parents for 6 months like big fat moochers, suddenly locating and leasing your own house, and then not being able to fully move in because of a prior commitment!  Oh the frustration!  Oh the irony.  But, it ended up really swell.  First, I go insane when it comes to unpacking.  If we had moved in and stayed moved in I would have been up 24/7 unpacking, decorating, detailing, and cleaning my little heart out.  Everything has to find it's new little home within its new home before I can rest easy.  So this time moving was really pretty relaxed because I knew in my little brain that we were going to literally move stuff in, dump it, and leave.  Wheeeew.  No room for OCD, anal-retentive, amazing unpacker Laurel.  She just had to wait. 

In the meantime, since we were stuck house-sitting, Danielle and Rob were gracious enough to come visit and occupy us.  How thankful we are for kind, generous, fun, and positively-minded friends like D&R.  Danielle & Tim got to know one another in Lubbock during college.  Then I met both of them on a road trip to California the summer of 2007.  Not only did I meet my future husband, but I met an amazing friend....what a lucky trip!  And Danielle married a real winner in Rob.  They are the lovely couple that sang and played at our wedding.  Details... ANYWAY....  it was a beautiful weekend of absolute nothingness.  We sat on the porch with frozen margaritas.  We took Oscar down to the river and watched him dominate the rapids going after his squeaky ball.  We cooked and ate.  We watched stupid TV shows.  We had some philosophical conversations (mostly over margaritas).

After the weekend, Tim and I realized that it has been a really long time since we just enjoyed each other, enjoyed our friends, and relaxed.  I also think we laughed a good deal, and nothing is better for relaxation than laughter.  Now that we are making another big push tomorrow to move in, I'm really thankful for those past few days of relaxation and enjoyment.

The other thing I'm really thankful for is this: 7 Centerpieces - The White Wedding Part 1
And this: 7 Centerpieces - The White Wedding Part II

Our first feature on a blog!  Sure, it's a sorta new somewhat, small blog, but it's a start.  And I'm so proud of everyone who contributed to making our wedding day something to be celebrated, not only by us, but by other brides and wedding lovers out there.  We have some other features coming up, so stay posted!  In the meantime, head on over to 7 Centerpieces via facebook or www.7centerpieces.com and become a fan or a subscriber.  Kourtney has dedicated her new blog to Texas weddings (and we all know they are some of the most creative, laid-back, and fun weddings to be had). : )

Also thankful for this.......

                           ......100 fans... all in a matter of weeks.  We are off to a good start, me thinks.


Well, Happy Monday, everyone!  Pray that we don't break any legs off our furniture or lose anything important on the highway tomorrow.

Oh yeah, and P.S. Happy Birthday to my Hubby tomorrow.... !

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Nesting

I am in FULL NESTING MODE.  So watch out.

I had this amazing energy yesterday -- where has that been since the wedding?? -- and it was put to very good use.  When we arrived at our new rental house 703 this morning, it was already blazing hot.  We had to get creative to get in the front door since our key did not appear to work.  Let's just say... it was pretty easy to break into our house.


Hubby and the FIL made three trips and we still only have about 1/3 of our furniture in the house!  While they were loading and driving and unloading (repeat), I was vacuuming, scrubbing, dusting, and singing.  Loudly.  I wanted the neighbors to know what to expect . . . .

Oscar helped, too.
I love to clean.  But mostly, I like the end result.  Next to cleaning, nothing gives me greater satisfaction when moving than to help objects find their new home, as well.  As I was taking out dishes and precious little things and setting them about, each step just made our place feel more like . . . well, our place!

However, I still have a long To Do list.  The list is long and the work will be hard.  But unlike with other places I've rented and lived, I do not feel that crazy sense of urgency that I have before to get everything done immediately.  I know that manicuring the lawn, planting a garden, and setting up a patio is going to take time.  I know that finding the right spot for furniture in our oddly shaped bedroom is going to take creativity, and possibly multiple rearrangements.  I know that the bathroom makes me cringe and something will have to be done.  But I want to enjoy it all . . . over time.  I feel like this is truly our first HOME.  I tried really hard with very limited resources to make all four of our previous residences homey.  But when you know you aren't staying . . . it's really hard to care quite as much.

This time, we're staying.  This time, I care.  A lot.  And twig by twig the nest will come together.

To Do (hopeful):

  • refinish floors
  • new coats of paint or touch ups
  • bathroom re do (tile, flooring, sink)
  • new kitchen flooring
  • seal windows and doors for energy efficiency
  • clean up back yard, put in permanent veggie garden area, plant flower garden
  • gravel driveway
  • trim bushes in front of house
  • strip closet of the oldest wall paper you've ever seen
  • curtains for all big windows -- I count a minimum of 15
There's more, but that's the initial list!  All per landlord approval, too.  Happy Nesting!

Don't they look good there?